The Secret to Getting Natural Smiles in Photos
(Even with Toddlers)
If you've ever walked away from a photo session wondering, “Did we get anything good?”
You are so not alone.
As a Lancaster PA family photographer (and a mom of four), I’ve been on both sides of the camera with toddlers who would rather do literally anything else.
But here’s the truth: natural smiles…the real, belly-laugh kind…are totally possible. And no, it doesn’t have to require bribery or perfectly behaved kids. It just takes a little connection, some silly questions, and a whole lot of play.
It Starts With Banter (The Sillier, the Better)
Want to know my favorite question to ask during a session?
→ “Who has the stinkiest feet in your house?”
It never fails. Someone always shouts “Dad!” and the giggles just roll from there.
As a family photographer in Lancaster PA, I love using humor and conversation to bring out kids’ true personalities. We chat about favorite pizza toppings, pretend birds are landing on my head mid-photo, and even see who can make the best fart noise (with their mouth, of course).
It’s not about making them behave. It’s about making them laugh.
When they’re laughing, they’re relaxed. And when they’re relaxed? We get the magic.
Play Over Posing
I guide families into simple, natural moments.
Tickles. Races. Squeezes so tight they spill into laughter.
Toddlers especially thrive when we lean into what they’re already doing: running, exploring, being silly. I’ll follow their lead and capture the in-between magic.
If you’ve been searching for a Lancaster PA family photographer who can roll with the chaos and still deliver timeless, heartfelt images, I might just be your girl.
Your Energy Sets the Tone
Here’s a secret: kids take their cues from you.
If you're tense or worried about how they’re acting, they feel it.
But if you lean in and just enjoy them for who they are, you’ll be amazed what we can create together.
Trust me with the chaos. I’ve got four kids, and I know how to find beauty in the messy moments.
The Best Smiles Are Never Forced
Some of my favorite shots are the ones that happen in between, the ones you didn’t plan for.
A little giggle at my camera noises.
A glance up at mom during a quiet moment.
A surprised laugh when I pretend to trip over a pinecone.
Real smiles come when we’re not trying so hard.
That’s where the heart is.
Let’s Capture the Real Stuff
If you’re looking for a Lancaster PA family photographer who knows how to turn chaos into keepsakes and bring out the best in even the busiest little ones, I’d love to work with you.
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